Wednesday, June 2, 2010
A new book to consider, I have read it cover to cover and it is very good.
It covers many if not all aspects of the trouble in Granite City from a secular perspective.
The Sociopath Next Door
By Martha Stout PHD.
Buy it at Amazon for Kindle or in hard copy here
Publisher: Broadway (March 14, 2006)
Another good book about this situation is
Confronting Jezebel: Discerning and Defeating the Spirit of Control By Steve Sampson
A very good look at the situation from a Christian perspective.
If you have spent any time in Granite City in front of Hope Clinic get ready for a shock.
Publisher: Chosen (August 1, 2003)
You can also still buy this at Borders Books and most of the local bookstores and Christian Book stores carry this or can order it pretty quick.
These are the main Jezebel characteristics.
But not all Jezebels have all of these traits.
Sound like anyone we know?
1. Refuses to admit guilt or wrong doing.
2. Takes credit for everything.
3. Uses people to accomplish its agenda.
4. Withholds information.
5. Talks in confusion, speaks but never really clarifies a point.
6. Volunteers for everything.
7. Lies. Sometimes for no apparent reason about the smallest of things.
8. Ignores people that could disagree with them.
9. Never gives credit or shows gratitude.
10. Criticizes everyone.
11. Upstages others.
12. Controls information.
13. Uses information.
14. Talks incessantly.
15. Spiritualizes everything.
16. Is insubordinate.
17. Is pushy and domineering.
18. Is clairvoyant. Even to the point of knowing things no one else could
19. Uses the element of surprise.
20. Sows seeds of discord.
21. Commands attention.
22. Is vengeful.
23. Attempts to make you look like you're the Jezebel.
24. Insinuates disapproval.
25. Knows it all.
26. Is over ambitious.
27. Manipulates through gift giving.
28. Is independent, accepting or having no other authority over it.
29. Is super religious.
30. Can hide(appear normal), and strike without warning.
31. Will take advantage of the most easily lead.
32/ Wants or tries to make everyone believe they are the only ones that can do the job or task. Indispensable
The Jezebel may be Male or Female.
Jezebel controllers are almost always motivated by insecurity, and can't tolerate rejection.